Wednesday, July 30, 2008

and then there were tears...



Emilia made it through her first morning at preschool. Everything went pretty well... I pulled up to the preschool and she was very excited. We walked to the door and I handed her to Laurel, one of the teachers, and then just left. There were no tears! I was driving away and reached into the back seat to get my cell phone out of my purse and caught a glance of her empty car seat and totally lost it. I had to pull over, and almost turned around to go back and get her but decided not to be one of "those" moms! I spent the whole morning at a Starbucks less than two miles away just in case it didn't go well. I tried to resist calling, but after about an hour I gave in and called and they said she was doing wonderfully. My heart dropped about an hour later when Laurel called me, and I thought something was wrong, but she just wanted to know if Emilia had any favorite animals... they were picking out pictures to decorate her box next to her name. Then they put these same animals on her chair, hand towel spot, toothbrush, etc... so she will associate it with her name. Anyway all that to say she was still doing great, and hadn't really noticed my absence. I showed back up during lunch, and I don't think she ever realized I was gone! I would have felt horrible if she cried when I left, but I never realized how badly unneeded I would feel when she didn't cry! They said she was perfect, and she even went potty for them twice! Yea Emilia! Oh, but she did try to eat part of a styrofoam toy... oh well, no one can expect her to be perfect all the time! I was so happy when I picked her up to see everything went well, but it was so good to have her back home this afternoon!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Emilia's Interview

Today was our 2nd "play" interview at Emilia's new preschool, and it went much better than the last one... for me, at least! Emilia did great both times, but I thought I might cry any minute on our 1st visit, just at the thought of leaving her with anyone, let alone the fact that she is getting so big, and will now have her own little "social life" without me. I only almost cried twice today, and one of those times she pointed to the door and told me to "GO MOMMY!" That would make anybody cry, right? Anyway this little place I am taking her is so adorable, and I have known the teachers for years, so that helps with the apprehension a little. I am only sending her two days a week, just so I will have time to study, which makes it even harder to leave her with somebody else, because I will be home since my two classes this semester are online. My 4 year old nephew, Garrett, goes there now, and my niece Hannah previously went there, so that also helps to know that it is a positive environment for little ones. I am supposed to drop her off tomorrow and actually leave her for the morning... we'll see how that goes! I will post photos tomorrow, and we will see who cries more!

Sunday, July 27, 2008

A Full Sun Weekend

I think this weekend was a full sun kind of weekend, because the NICU was absolutely nuts! Usually on full moons the night shift is crazy, but this weekend the chaos all belonged to day shift. My goodness the weekends fly when you are having fun. Yesterday was an absolutely crazy day in the NICU and today wasn't boring either. I'm not sure how many babies we had admitted yesterday, probably because I wasn't there half the day! I had the opportunity to go out on a transport yesterday to pick up a baby from another facility, which is always exciting, especially when the air conditioning is working on the ambulance, which is more than I can say for the ambulance I rode in for transport last weekend... Luckily the babies are in a transport isolette, so they are not affected so much by the outside temp, especially when it is a short drive! Unfortunately I got home from work a little late last night, and it was Chris's birthday! Luckily he's very understanding, and plus I did pick up carry out... that makes up for it, right? He's always so understanding when I have to work late...lucky for me! Anyway, as far as the excitement at work today, the AC temporarily was out at my work... yes 4th floor of a hospital... it was 87 degrees in the babies room! Again, I will emphasize this sucks much more for the nurses than it affects the babies. I was actually able to let one of my babies be out to hold several times today because the room was warm enough that I did not have to worry about him getting cold, so I'm sure those parents didn't mind the heat to much, it just meant more snuggle time!

Friday, July 25, 2008

Somebody's Pregnant!

Okay, first of all it is not me, but today I found out one of my really good friends is expecting her first baby! I cannot disclose her identity, though, until she decides to make the pregnancy public knowledge... she won't be able to hide it for long, though! Anyway... you know who you are, so I will just give you a very public congratulations, and know that I don't to well with secrets! I admit, I did slip up to Emilia, and she was very excited as well! Today was nothing exciting, unless you find Costco invigorating. Oh, and watching Nemo for the 100th time this week. There are several parts that scare Emilia, though, so we have to fast forward through over half the movie... specifically the parts with sharks and pirahnas. She will be very suprised to find out that Nemo is more than 30 minutes long, but for now we'll keep her in the dark. I made the mistake of letting her watch part of it one time when my 7 year old niece came over, and she has been obsessed every since! Things aren't going as quickly as planned in uploading Emilia's old photos and videos, but they will eventually make it onto our blog!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Emilia

How we met

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Okay, so I kind of let our family blog go... okay I went over a year without posting updates! Hopefully this one goes a better and I don't procrastinate so often. I am trying to get all of the photos I had on our last one transferred over to this one, but we will see how long that takes! Anyway, we have had so much happen this past year, and we are coming upon the beginning of our daughter Emilia's 2nd year, and time is showing no projection of slowing down... therefore I thought I should get our new blog started so our family and friends will be able to see updates on her before she enters college! Here is a fast forward through our past two years... We found out Christmas of 2005 that we were expecting our first, and were absolutely ecstatic. We waited until after our first sonogram @ 10 weeks to tell everybody just to make sure things were going well. Emilia was born on 08/07/06 at 36 weeks gestation. She spent her first weeks in the NICU at OPRMC where I was and currently still am a NICU nurse. (some of my fav blogs are babies I have cared for...)She was born just 1 month early, but was not quite ready. Her lungs were a little immature, and she was anemic due to blood loss in utero. So she was placed on a ventilator, given artificial surfactant and blood, and had central lines placed to monitor blood pressure and give nutrition. A cardiologist visited her to evaluate her heart murmur, and she was diagnosed with a PDA, which was not helping with her respiratory issues, and a VSD, which is a hole in the septum between the two ventricles. They also did a head ultrasound of her brain to make sure the blood loss wasn't occurring there, and an ultrasound of her sacrum(she had a dimple) and kidneys. All of her tests were coming back normal which did not give us a reason as to why she was so sick for being so old. Extended screens, genetic testing, and abnormal antigen screening tests were all done with still no answers. Emilia came straight off the ventilator to room air and was home 4 days later. I was able to take off 14 weeks maternity leave, and then went back to working nights and trying to stay up during the day, which did not work so well! I was not willing to send her to childcare, though, because it was flu and RSV season, and I did not want her getting sick. Eventually I switched to only working during the days on weekends, so I could be home with her during the week, and Chris played Mr. mom on the weekends... which he does quite nicely! He also switched jobs in the midst of all this, and continues to work for Mid America Regional Council. He is a traffic signal analyst and working on a regional project called Operation Greenlight (http://www.marc.org/transportation/ogl/). This has been a true blessing because his main office is minutes away from home, and he has fairly flexible hours, which has allowed him to participate in some of Emilia's day to day activities, not to mention he enjoys his job and co workers! Emilia's 1st year flew by without illness, and received a clean bill of health at her one year check up. Her anemia resolved and her VSD closed on it's own...yea! Then she became mobile, and one of her favorite things to do was to crawl up to us and bite our legs... we called her our little piranha! We started teaching her sign language early on, so we were able to bypass some frustrating times since she had learned to communicate many simple concepts. Both my sisters (also both nurses) had babies this first year, also, so Emilia ended up with a cousin 10 weeks younger than her, Lillian, and Hudson arrived about 3 months later. Talk about built in play mates at family functions! Chris and I now have a total of 4 nephews and 3 nieces! Like I said, Emilia is almost 2 now, and is busy, busy, and more busy! She is talking up a storm and actually putting sentences together. She also enjoys climbing, and has decided that life can indeed survive on only "coffee milk" (chocolate milk), cheerios, cheese and carrots. There is nothing like waking up to a cheerful toddler that says, "hi mama" and keeps repeating it until your response is as enthusiastic as hers, which takes a bit when she gets us up at 6 am! She has been and continues to be our greatest miracle, and such and inspiration as to the gifts that God holds for us every day. She makes us slow down and enjoy the details of life, like lady bugs and birds when we're on walks, or stopping to pick the yellow weeds which she thinks are beautiful flowers! Her enthusiasm for life is contagious, and though quite ornery at times, she constantly maintains such a sweet spirit. I hope this blog helps our family and friends stay updated on our family's day to day life and helps in getting to know where we've been, and better yet where we are going!